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How to prepare for a child custody hearing

Preparing for a child custody in Pennsylvania can be nerve-wracking. What happens in this hearing can decide the course of you and your children’s lives for at least the next few years. You can make the process a little less scary by preparing yourself for the hearing and reviewing certain points with your attorney. Here’s how you can prepare for a child custody hearing.

Tips on preparing for a child custody hearing

If you’re aiming for sole custody, you’ll need to be able to prove to the judge that you’re the better parent. Otherwise, they’ll have no reason to give you sole custody over your former spouse. Talk to your attorney about how you can provide evidence that shows that you’re the better parent for your child. This doesn’t necessarily mean making your spouse look bad; instead, it might involve showing the judge that you can give your child a stable, loving home.

Before your child custody hearing, you’ll also want to learn about courtroom etiquette. If you present yourself badly in court, the judge might be less likely to grant you sole or joint custody, even if you know you’re the better parent for your child. Learn how to make a good first impression and present yourself in a calm, professional manner.

On a similar note, you should also make sure that you dress appropriately for the case. If you show up wearing a baggy hoodie and jeans, the judge might think that you’re not taking this seriously. But if you wear a clean, formal outfit and fix your hair and makeup (if applicable), you’ll show the judge that you’re committed to winning your custody case.

How can your attorney help you prepare for your custody case?

An attorney could help you prepare for your custody case in a variety of ways. They might invite you to roleplay the case in their office so you can get an idea of what to expect. Additionally, they could educate you on your state’s child custody laws and give you some of the questions that the judge might ask you in court.