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Tips for parents who have recently gone through a divorce

Deciding to get a divorce is rarely an easy decision, and parenting after a marriage has ended can be complicated. However, there are strategies that parents in Pennsylvania and throughout the country may be able to use to raise their children together. For example, parents should be as flexible as possible when it comes to designating parenting time. Ideally, they will do whatever makes a child happy even if it isn’t part of a written parenting plan.

An ex who is willing to compromise with their child’s other parent is less likely to spend time in court resolving disputes. Generally speaking, staying out of court can be beneficial for both the parents and the kids.

Disputes are typically easier to resolve when parents are willing to communicate directly with each other. Parents can either talk in person, communicate through text messages or use any other method that works best for them. However, it is important that they don’t use their kids as a tool to relay messages between each other.

Despite no longer being in a relationship, mothers and fathers should apply a unified front when it comes to raising their children. This makes it easier for kids to understand what is expected of them, which can reduce stress and help them feel more secure.

There are many ways to resolve child custody disputes. For example, parents may try working with a mediator or asking a judge for help. However, it’s generally better for parents to solve problems on their own whenever possible. Doing so may help them work on their communication skills while also being a good example for their children. Ideally, individuals will make decisions that prioritize their children’s best interests over their own. An attorney may assist those who are involved in ongoing child custody disputes.